Our administration ensures that every profile put up at Australia Matrimony is screened for irrelevant and/or inappropriate content. We also have strict abuse-prevention and reporting systems in place for those who try to bypass our screening process.

However, in ensuring your safety & privacy, we're limited to actions within our control. Therefore, it is necessary for you to exercise some simple precautions for a safe and secure experience.

Here are some simple guidelines YOU can follow to protect your privacy:

1. Guard Your Anonymity

   Our system of anonymous contacting (expressing interest, accepting/declining) and private messaging (Communicate section) ensures that your identity remains protected until YOU decide to reveal it.

   Do: Remember that you are in control of your online experience at all times. You can remain completely anonymous until you choose otherwise.

   Don't: Do not include personal contact information (such as your email address, home address, telephone numbers, workplace, or any other identifying details) in your initial messages. Avoid sending such details until you feel confident that the person is trustworthy.

2. Start Slow – Use Emails Initially

   Trust your instincts and begin by sharing important details via our secure mail system.

   Do: Look for odd behavior or inconsistencies. Serious individuals will respect your space and allow you to take your time. Consider asking a friend to review your emails to spot any warning signs.

   Don't: Continue communication with anyone who pressures you for personal details or attempts to trick you into revealing sensitive information.

3. Request a Photo

   A photo gives you a clear idea of the person's appearance and helps you gauge your gut feeling.

   Do: Use the Profile Photos feature on Australia Matrimony. Since Australia Matrimony offers free upload services to its members, there’s no reason someone shouldn’t be able to provide a genuine photo. It’s best to view several images in different settings—casual, formal, indoor, and outdoor. If you hear only excuses about why a photo can’t be provided, consider that they might be hiding something.

4. Meet Only After You Tell Your Parents

   When meeting offline, it’s wise to involve your family. If you choose to meet alone, always inform a friend or family member where you are going and when you’ll return.

   Do: For your first face-to-face meeting, select a public place (such as a restaurant or café) at a time when many people are around. Ensure you have your own transportation and, if possible, bring a friend or relative along. If you do decide to meet alone, share your meeting details (name, address, and telephone number of your date) with someone you trust and carry a mobile phone.

   Don't: Never arrange for your prospective match to pick you up or drop you off at home, and avoid isolated locations or activities like watching a movie alone on your first meeting.

5. Watch for Warning Signs

   Being alert to warning signs is the best way to avoid uncomfortable situations.

   Do: Ask plenty of questions and look for inconsistencies. This helps you detect potential liars or con artists, and assess compatibility. Pay attention to signs such as displays of anger, intense frustration, or attempts to pressure or control you. Involve your family or close friends when making decisions.

   Don't: Ignore behaviors that lack acceptable explanations—for example, inconsistent details about age, interests, appearance, marital status, or employment; failure to answer direct questions; a marked difference between online and in-person personas; or reluctance to introduce you to friends or family.

6. Beware of Money Scams

   Be cautious of money scams; con artists and scammers are prevalent worldwide.

   Do: Be wary of anyone asking for money for any reason. If someone requests money, it is best to cut off communication immediately and report the situation to us. Remember, a genuine person will never ask for money under any circumstances.

   Also: Take all the time you need to choose a trustworthy person. Avoid those who shower you with affection at first and then vanish. Maintain a cautious distance—even if intimacy is only online. Ultimately, trust your instincts and use your good judgment, as you are responsible for your own experience.

If you have an unpleasant experience, you can always report it to the authorities. We cater only to those serious about marriage. All your actions—including IM and mail messages—are recorded in our system, and we will fully support the police (Cyber Crime Investigation Cell) if needed.